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Stage 5: Happily Ever After

Happily Ever After

What do we really know about the power of two people who become a couple? Can we describe it with words, numbers or a vision? If for me the power of a strong relationship is expressed through my own experience and work with dozens of families, then for others it might even be expressed in the power of the family integrity expressed through much more than a life time next to one another.

I will share with you a story that moved both me and thousands of people around the world. This is a story about the power of the human spirit separately and as a part of a couple like a quadratic equation that gives the answer to the question that is Step 5 of the development of interpersonal relationships.

An inspiring example of a powerful couple

A story that keeps coming up in my local community is tha...

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Challenges for Couples in Stage 4

Beach couple - Challenges for Couples in Stage 4

The challenges for you couples in Stage 4 include expanding your ability to move easily toward and away from each other as the situation requires. You may even want to spend more time together as any lingering threat of being trapped or smothered by the other has now been resolved.

This stage also opens the way for a more adventurous sexual relationship and a willingness to explore wider frontiers with your partner as well as a wish to satisfy requests, even when it may be inconvenient to do so, or when there may be nothing coming back in return.

The real challenge in Stage 4 then is to listen to—and hear—your partner’s perspective without judgment while maintaining your own.

The emotional closeness and sexual intimacy between you may wane at times, but there is now something much g...

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Are You Thinking About Separation or Divorce?

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Are You Thinking About Separation or Divorce?

 

Some excerpts from my workshops.

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Relationship Stage 4: Recoupling (When You Put “Relate” back into Relationship)

Relationship Stage 4: RecouplingHave you ever heard this Indian song?

You will start to love your life again my friend
and that is all, there’s nothing more to say
singing hey lay oh hey
singing hey lay oh ha

If life is a theatre play we are playing the fourth act of our relationship – Recoupling. This song would be the most appropriate and most meaningful music background.The World is full of wonders and individuality is one of them. In finding ourselves, our own inner Universe, we have the real opportunity to share it with another human being and to mutually exchange feelings, emotions, and life.Nothing else matters now when two human beings find their way towards one another with the freedom to communicate independently and autonomously...
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Are You Relationship Prepared?

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Are You Relationship Prepared?

 

 

Some excerpts from my workshops.

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Stage 3: Rediscovering Yourself

Rediscovering YourselfI like the analogy between the relationship and the Chinese Yin Yang symbol. Similarities are obvious at several levels. The male and female beginning is represented by the black and white colours. If we look at the symbol of the circle and infinity, we will see that these two individualities are brilliantly combined in a whole. And translated into the language of our partnership, Yin and Yang are two separate identities bound together in an eternal union. From the point of view of the inner-couple relations, the key accent here is the numbers two and one. The difference in the sequence of the numbers in this case is of fundamental significance.

Rediscovering Your Boundaries: Where, Exactly, Do I Begin and End?

Therefore, this stage is about you moving from an undifferentiated “we” back to...

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Are You Thinking About Separation or Divorce?

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Are You Thinking About Separation Or Divorce?

ARE YOU THINKING ABOUT SEPARATION OR DIVORCE?
Don’t speak to anyone until you have come to this FREE Information Evening with Lidy.
Are You Thinking About Separation Or Divorce?
Does this sound like you?
 You feel like walking out and leaving it all behind.
 The only thing stopping you is the kids or finances.
 Your partner refuses to talk to you about what is going on.
 You don’t know what else you can do.
 It seems like separation is the only option left.
 You’ve already walked out or been walked out on …
Are You Thinking About Separation Or Divorce?
In just 90 mins you will get all your questions answered about why relationships end and what you can expect during separation...
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Is Your Relationship In Trouble?

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Is Your Relationship In Trouble?

Is Your Relationship In Trouble? Don’t make any rash decisions until you have booked yourself in to this FREE seminar.
“Lidy has helped thousands of relationships. She may be able to help you too.”
Is Your Relationship In Trouble?
In just 90 mins you will learn the 3 simple steps you need to take to get your partner to understand how serious things have become. Is Your Relationship In Trouble? The presentation will give you strategies that you can immediately put into practice to:
1. Understand the problems couples are dealing with
2. Determine the extent of your Circle of Control and Influence
3. Communicate a message that you can be sure will get heard
Is Your Relationship In Trouble?
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I Am Ready to Meet You

Body Language or I Am Ready to Meet You

For centuries people have described and praised love as a flame striking at the heart. Sonnets, stories and novels tell stories about young lovers who through all kinds of adversity find love and come to live happily ever after.

Each one of us tends to believe this magic, to submit our whole life to it in the search of our own fabulous love story. And why not, you probably think! But for us to truly be able to say: “I Am Ready to Meet You”, we really must be free of our past and at peace in ourselves. This is the foundation and the beginning of a new life where Happy Ever After is truly possible.

And like any great adventure finding the fairy tale requires us to pass through a storm of challenges on the way...

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Seminar February 10, 2015

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Seminar February 2015

 

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