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Stage 3: Rediscovering Yourself

Rediscovering YourselfI like the analogy between the relationship and the Chinese Yin Yang symbol. Similarities are obvious at several levels. The male and female beginning is represented by the black and white colours. If we look at the symbol of the circle and infinity, we will see that these two individualities are brilliantly combined in a whole. And translated into the language of our partnership, Yin and Yang are two separate identities bound together in an eternal union. From the point of view of the inner-couple relations, the key accent here is the numbers two and one. The difference in the sequence of the numbers in this case is of fundamental significance.

Rediscovering Your Boundaries: Where, Exactly, Do I Begin and End?

Therefore, this stage is about you moving from an undifferentiated “we” back to...

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Addiction to Love and Other Challenges in Stage 2

Addicted to LoveDo you know the image of the Eternal bachelor, of Casanova, with a charming smile and shining eyes? This is the image of the love addict striving to always feel, at any price, in love and part of an endless honeymoon. This is an archetype for many main characters in movies and novels. Whether you recognize them in the movies, on the street or in the flower shop, you can be sure that this person will give you an unforgettable honeymoon, but it will not be forever.

You Might As Well Face It; You’re Addicted to Love

Some people are so addicted to love that they skip from one relationship to another just to experience the buzz of a new relationship rather than endure the heartache that Stage 2 may create.

So, instead of searching for what could come next, they abandon the relationship and se...

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Relationship Release – The Easiest Way to Leave Your Lover

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Relationship Release – Is Your Relationship in Serious Trouble?

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Relationship Release – The easiest way to leave your lover

 

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Challenges for Couples in Stage 1 of Their Relationship

Cute couple having a good relationshipThey were talking while having a glass of wine as they often did. Four women talking about their relationships until one of them shared: “…We’ve been together for six months now. But I can’t breathe anymore! He just wants to be attached to me all the time. Even when I’m working, he wants to cuddle up just like a baby … Why is that so many men do that to me…? I am not his mother! It was nice for a time. I thought he just really loved me… but I need my own space back!”

It is easy for us to guess that this woman, who has just taken off her rose coloured glasses, is now seeing her partner for real out of the context of the honeymoon stage of their relationship...

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All I can see are your good points

All I can see are your good points

“I have finally met the one I am meant to be with; my soul mate. I love him! I love him! I love him!” – These are the words of every woman in love who has just found out that destiny “has brought” to her knight in shining armour.
Men feel similarly. And if men tend to be more laconic when it comes to their emotions, then be sure and don’t doubt that they live through this love storm in the same way but without shouting out loud they’ve just found the perfect woman. This is the way things are and Nature has taken good care of all, so that in the beginning of a new relationship we enjoy the so-called “honeymoon stage of being in love”.

Relationship Stage 1: All I can see are your good points

The first stage of a relationship is a time of exclusive attachment...

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Are You Thinking About Separation or Divorce?

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Are You Thinking About Separation Or Divorce?

ARE YOU THINKING ABOUT SEPARATION OR DIVORCE?
Don’t speak to anyone until you have come to this FREE Information Evening with Lidy.
Are You Thinking About Separation Or Divorce?
Does this sound like you?
 You feel like walking out and leaving it all behind.
 The only thing stopping you is the kids or finances.
 Your partner refuses to talk to you about what is going on.
 You don’t know what else you can do.
 It seems like separation is the only option left.
 You’ve already walked out or been walked out on …
Are You Thinking About Separation Or Divorce?
In just 90 mins you will get all your questions answered about why relationships end and what you can expect during separation...
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The Rebound Relationship

Couple of Butterflies

I met a client yesterday who told me that for no apparent reason or cause her partner came to her one day and told her he wasn’t happy. He said he wanted to take six months living separately from her to decide whether he really wanted to be in this relationship. She was dumbfounded and asked whether he was seeing someone else. He denied it. He just kept saying he wasn’t happy and needed some time separate.

Couples often do not realize the problems that prevent them from being happy. Instead, they keep searching for the answers outside of themselves and outside of their relationships rather than looking within.

Furthermore, there are many cases when following a break-up, one of the couple jumps into a new relationship before taking the time to explore their part in the breakup...

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Is Your Relationship In Trouble?

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Is Your Relationship In Trouble?

Is Your Relationship In Trouble? Don’t make any rash decisions until you have booked yourself in to this FREE seminar.
“Lidy has helped thousands of relationships. She may be able to help you too.”
Is Your Relationship In Trouble?
In just 90 mins you will learn the 3 simple steps you need to take to get your partner to understand how serious things have become. Is Your Relationship In Trouble? The presentation will give you strategies that you can immediately put into practice to:
1. Understand the problems couples are dealing with
2. Determine the extent of your Circle of Control and Influence
3. Communicate a message that you can be sure will get heard
Is Your Relationship In Trouble?
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I Am Ready to Meet You

Body Language or I Am Ready to Meet You

For centuries people have described and praised love as a flame striking at the heart. Sonnets, stories and novels tell stories about young lovers who through all kinds of adversity find love and come to live happily ever after.

Each one of us tends to believe this magic, to submit our whole life to it in the search of our own fabulous love story. And why not, you probably think! But for us to truly be able to say: “I Am Ready to Meet You”, we really must be free of our past and at peace in ourselves. This is the foundation and the beginning of a new life where Happy Ever After is truly possible.

And like any great adventure finding the fairy tale requires us to pass through a storm of challenges on the way...

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Seminar February 10, 2015

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Seminar February 2015

 

Some excerpts from my workshops.

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